Sunday, February 8, 2009


CCNNN said...

Hey, Radonda. Nice post! Even though you used 'relationships' as the core example of what you were talking about.....your post gives me a lot to think about when it comes to our upcoming adoption. Surrender is something I reaaly need to learn to do, as I really have no control over the outcome. It's a painful process, but maybe if I try it con become a positive one. Thanks for your words. :) Happy writing!-Christine

Radonda said...

Wow. I guess technically you do have a relationship with the birth mom. It's a relationship that hinges on a HUGE amount of trust. You have a tremendous amount of courage, my friend. I can write eloquently, but I am not sure I would have the courage and patience to do what you are doing. But you are do have to surrender a certain piece of the whole adoption process. You can only control part of the outcome. The rest is up to fate. That's where trusting in higher wisdom/higher good is so important.
I wish you luck and I am looking forward to seeing you soon!!